2 Weeks, 3 Countries, Infinite Memories: My Solo Southeast Asia Trip!
- Jes Bellamy
- Oct 30
- 4 min read
Updated: 18h

Two weeks, three countries, and a thousand memories later — Southeast Asia completely stole my heart. From sunrises over ancient temples to night markets buzzing with life, every day felt like a new adventure. I set out with a suitcase, an open mind, and a craving for something real — and Southeast Asia delivered beyond expectation. Here’s a look at how I spent two unforgettable weeks exploring the beauty, flavor, and soul of this incredible region.

I explored Singapore, Malaysia, and Indonesia, and each morning began with the scent of fresh street food and the hum of scooters zipping past. Afternoons were for exploring ancient ruins, swimming in turquoise waters, and getting lost in bustling markets. Nights were spent watching sunsets that painted the sky in shades I didn’t even know existed, eating meals that cost less than a cup of coffee, and meeting travelers who instantly felt like old friends.
What I loved most was the contrast — the chaos and calm, the simplicity and richness, the blend of ancient traditions and modern life, all coming together in perfect harmony. Southeast Asia has a way of changing you — reminding you to slow down, stay curious, and savor every small, beautiful moment.
In this post, I’ll share how I collectively spent two unforgettable weeks exploring Southeast Asia — When to go, travel tips, and everything I wish I’d known before I went.

When to Go
I went in April, which was the perfect time weather-wise. It only rained once, in Malaysia, and the rainfall lasted for only a couple of hours. I will say, though, that it was insanely hot everywhere that I went, and the humidity was out of this world. I recommend visiting Southeast Asia during the dry season, which typically runs from November to April, as the weather is more pleasant and less humid. Although it's at the end of the dry season, I still recommend going in April, as the crowds are smaller and the vibrant festivals are in full swing.
Itinerary
Singapore - 2 Days
Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia- 1 day
Bali, Indonesia - 10 Days
Be sure to check out my upcoming posts for in-depth details about my experiences in each country!
Hotels and Transportation

I stayed in a mix of Airbnbs, hotels, and resorts, which provided unique experiences and excellent services. My favorite accommodations were in Bali, where I had the opportunity to enjoy private pools and luxurious villas.
Transportation was smooth, with a combination of private drivers, public transit, and occasional flights between countries, making the journey convenient and enjoyable. Other than walking, I mostly used Grab, which is the “Uber” of Asia, to get around the cities and to the airports. As for Airlines, I flew on United Airlines, Singapore Airlines, and Malaysia Airlines. It was my first time flying on a non-US airline, and let me say! The service was incredible, and I will definitely do it again if the opportunity arises.
Traveling Solo
I'll be the first to admit that I still get nervous about traveling Solo, and this trip definitely had me worried a bit. However, I am so glad I got the strength to push through and enjoy being on my own in new countries. I learned a great deal about myself (both the pros and cons), and I now know that I can handle a long trip traveling solo.
As for Asia, there are so many solo travelers there that I felt super comfortable being on my own, and not once did I feel unsafe! I will say that, as an introvert, it was hard for me to meet new people and build friendships. However, I am sure that if I had put myself out there more, I would have.
If you're nervous about solo traveling and want to learn more about how I have embraced solo traveling, check out my blog "Wings of My Own: The Beauty of Flying Solo"

Other Tips and Tricks
Highly recommend bringing Lemon/eucalyptus bug spray, a travel fan, and charcoal pills for your stomach!
Bring an empty travel pillow that you can stuff; that way, if you buy too much, you can put some clothes in the pillow and save space in your luggage.
Don’t brag about how cheap things are in public; just because it is affordable to you doesn’t mean it is to the locals.
Bring lots of tissues/hand wipes, or hand sanitizer. Napkins aren’t always given, and you’ll need them for Hawke centers! Discover the reasons in my Singapore Blog.
Stay up to date on visa requirements, as they are constantly changing in today's world.
Remember to give yourself grace when traveling solo. You will inevitably mess up some things or feel lonely because hey...we're only human! So, just be kind to yourself <3

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